Most of us has often heard our elders boasting about schooldays....."School days are the best,golden days,never gonna come back" n all those stuff..... since i have completed my degree(which means i have stepped out of school n college)....i too get the right to say....Mahn!!!!!Those were the days!!!!
But am dead sure that if any school student is reading this...he will be like-what nonsense???School mein itna bhii kya rakha hai????School students wanna get out of it....they put it as "we want freedom"..The problem is when we are in school ,we would act as if the whole world's on us....lots of responsibilities, tasks,grumbling over things,gossiping,bitching about teachers and what not?????In short we make our school life look as HELL to us....
When your ma'am steps into the class and asks some students to volunteer for some task, what's the first response?????Ma'am she will do it....he will do it etc...believe me....i know coz i used to exactly do the same thing.....coz at that point of time,i felt that taking the responsibility of some task was next to impossible....n what if finally we are assigned to do something?????All hell breaks loose......ohh shits....gotta complete the work in time,how to do it????what if i cant do it within the deadline?????Ma'am will kill me.....ohhhhhh Godddd......such a lot of insecurities,such a lot of tension,pressure.....all which's damn unnecessary....know what????its when u learn to enjoy what you have,what you do........that you really begin to enjoy your life.....think on it...
School days ho,aur crushes na ho????yeh kaisi baath huii???Having a crush,getting attracted....common things.....but problem thab kadii hotii hai,jab hum ye sab sir pe utta lethe hai...Gals ke baare mein bolu tho....Goddddd!!!!!Ek ladke ne aake,i love you kya keh diya,aur ho gayii shuru sochne....Oh my God....what do i do now???what do i reply???my friends will make fun of me unnecessarily....sab hasenge...what if my parents come to know???many more....the problem with gals is too much thinking...i mean what's the big deal actually????I have heard many of my friends in school boast-This is not campus love....we gonna marry....under my nose i have seen them break up n glaring at each other whenever fate put them aamne-saamne..In school whatever u say....you are not at all ready to take big decisions....so all these proposals,exchange of chits in class,....should be taken lightly yaar.Future plans aur family planning baadh mein kar lena..For now,just enjoy the moment and chillllll.........
School means a place which s highly secure.....no tensions of the outside world....just do padaaii and karo khoobh saari masti.....Its a heaven out there guyzz.....If you dont make the most of your schooldays now.....later on, some day, you will be sitting in front of your P.C and blogging like me......
After reading this....u might be wondering....whats the purpose of this?????if u are a school student...well....u get 2 know dat, Heyyyy!!!!!So after all....School's not as hellish as i thought........ Make the most of it guyzz....Faltoo baato ke baare mein sochna bandh karo aur bas der saarii masti karo......dont 4gt studies ok....they are of gr8 value mahn!!!
Those of you all who have,Well...gone through your schooldays already?????Haven't my writing brought u back all those little little things back????vo pehli crush...the fight u had with your best friend.....your gang....all those moments close to your heart.....N most probably....thinking of all those...have i brought a smile to your face?????????If i have.....i have succeeded.....
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Monday, April 28, 2008
SPENDING QUALITY TIME WITH ONESELF
I can imagine your reaction right now.....u are like....yeh kaisi topic leke bait gayi nayana????Relax.....am just talking about something very simple.....but something which often goes unnoticed......right...I mean let me ask..How many of you give a space for yourself in life????I'll clarify my question.How many of you spend a tiny bit of time with yourself??Answer-Very few..
Now you will be thinking what's the need for it anywayz..Well there's....It can do wonders dear..Most of us keep grumbling , that i have time for nothing....and here you are asking to spend time for one self.....Many of times....we are lost .Lost among the crowd.Dont know what to do.Just keep racing in life..coz hey!!! its a fast -paced world....So i need to run too.....In this hurry we tend to lose our identity..Dont you think so??
So just to identify who you are,what you want....you need to keep a share of time for yourself.How to spend this exclusive time???Mein bathaathi hoo...It's damn simple..just sit in a corner of your house and reflect upon things...if you feel that you did some foolish or idiotic act...scold yourself..or when you feel you have done something praiseworthy give a pat on your back..It will make you feel good..By the way dont let anyone else see this self-interaction going on....Khaamakhaa galath fehmi ho jaayegii yaar....
Benefits????Many....u learn to enjoy and appreciate the little things in life which would otherwise have gone unnoticed..u learn to discover yourself....your likes,dislikes,what irritates you,what amuse you,what makes you cry,your talents..Its all about YOU......On the whole you learn to love yourself.....
Only if you love yourself , can you love others and be loved...howzzat????
Now you will be thinking what's the need for it anywayz..Well there's....It can do wonders dear..Most of us keep grumbling , that i have time for nothing....and here you are asking to spend time for one self.....Many of times....we are lost .Lost among the crowd.Dont know what to do.Just keep racing in life..coz hey!!! its a fast -paced world....So i need to run too.....In this hurry we tend to lose our identity..Dont you think so??
So just to identify who you are,what you want....you need to keep a share of time for yourself.How to spend this exclusive time???Mein bathaathi hoo...It's damn simple..just sit in a corner of your house and reflect upon things...if you feel that you did some foolish or idiotic act...scold yourself..or when you feel you have done something praiseworthy give a pat on your back..It will make you feel good..By the way dont let anyone else see this self-interaction going on....Khaamakhaa galath fehmi ho jaayegii yaar....
Benefits????Many....u learn to enjoy and appreciate the little things in life which would otherwise have gone unnoticed..u learn to discover yourself....your likes,dislikes,what irritates you,what amuse you,what makes you cry,your talents..Its all about YOU......On the whole you learn to love yourself.....
Only if you love yourself , can you love others and be loved...howzzat????
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